A Tale of Two Continents: Parenting in the US vs. Spain

February 16, 2025 - 15:39

Emily San José raised her first child in Oregon, then moved to Spain when her second was four months old. The transition from the U.S. to Europe brought her face-to-face with stark differences in child-rearing environments. San José found that Spain offered a more kid-friendly atmosphere compared to her experiences in the United States.

In Spain, she noted the abundance of parks, playgrounds, and child-centric activities that are easily accessible. The culture embraces family life, making it common to see children accompanying their parents in restaurants and shops without the stigma often felt in the U.S. The Spanish approach to parenting emphasizes community, with families often gathering in public spaces, fostering a sense of belonging for children.

Additionally, San José appreciated the more relaxed pace of life in Spain, which allowed families to enjoy leisurely outings without the rush often experienced in American cities. This cultural shift not only enhanced her children's social interactions but also enriched her own parenting experience.